I'm in my first mature relationship - sad seeing as I'm 20 years old! - and there are problems just like with every couple. I really do mean EVERY couple too, by the way!
See my friends were supposed to be the "hope couple" for me, they looked like they were happy as could be, never got into ridiculous arguments and could always be seen laughing and/or smiling whenever you saw them together. But, I then found out that that just wasn't the case - she is just a bottler and he is idk what!
Then of course I can now look around at all couples that I know and be able to see that there are problems... HMMM. Maybe this isn't such a great thing to be able to see, since whenever my friends have issues I want to help... and I have learned over the years to stay out of issues pertaining to relationships unless someone asks for either my opinion or my advice!
Back to the issues with me and my love, I thought I was a bottler but apparently I didn't know what the hell I was talking about since Matt keeps more stuff to himself then I do and when he makes a quip and I ask him about it nine times out of ten I will be told to either drop it or forget about it because he doesn't want to talk about it. It scares me to think that if I push him to talk about it we will end up IN an argument and OUT of a relationship....
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